22 Tips How To Get Unstuck

June, 2019

Dear Friend,

I have no idea how you got to this website. Maybe you found it by a google search or maybe you saw a review on Amazon. Maybe a friend referred you. Perhaps you stumbled onto it by pure luck. But, however you got here, you have arrived, and without question, and in my opinion you were meant to find this website... something in You knows your Life is out of balance and you're not sure why you feel yucky inside...

If You Are Feeling Stuck
There's Only One Reason Why...


You are growing...it might not seem like it but you are... There's something in your life in which you need to make a decision whether or not you consciously know what it is. The decision will move you in another direction and you are worried. Many people feel stuck. They’re stuck because their lives are not MOVING in the direction they want to go or better yet the LACK of KNOWING where they want go.

They feel despair like “what’s the use, I can’t do anything about it,” whatever "IT" may be. But you don't have to feel despair. You want recognition, to feel safe and to have money in your bank account.

You Feel Like Life Is
Closing In On You...It's Only Temporary

Only you can make the decisions that move your life forward or backwards. You found this website because you feel stuck in your life on some level, however feeling stuck is normal as you travel down the highway of life. You’ll get to that intersection and wonder which way to go, left or right.

Most people feel stuck at some point in their life so you are not alone. You can actually grow from this experience and come out on the other side more confident, full of energy and have a purpose for your life.

Your MIND Is The #1 Cause
That Makes You Feel Like You Do.

I’m not a therapist or psychologist, but I do know the mind is powerful and will have you acting on auto pilot to situations that happen in your life. It’s your reaction to those situations that have you stuck and only you know what they are. Feeling stuck is due to a lack of decisions you need to make in your life. When you feel stuck you are actually growing as a person. If you think about past situations that had you stuck, you probably had some type of growth in your life.

The good news is you can change your mind anytime to get the peace you need. You have the abiity to feel good now not some future date. You have the ability now to turn your thoughts around so you can have a brighter future.

Being Stuck Is A Sure Sign Things Are Changing
In Your Life No Matter How Extreme The Circumstances.

The most extreme is you don’t want to be on earth anymore, however for some people not having money is the most extreme circumstance. The truth is you want to look beautiful, you want to feel secure, you want to feel important, you want recognition or maybe you just want love and you are worthy of all these things.

Everyone's Story Of Being Stuck
Is Different...

My Story...

Back in May of 2015 when life was good and I was earning lots of cash, I walked away from my highest paying client because she gave my assistant my raise and when I asked her why, she told me the assistant doesn’t earn as much and felt she needed it more. WTF! I thought well she’s hasn’t even been there a year and hadn't earned the raise and I've been there working hard ten years!

I Quit On The Spot...

I walked out and haven’t looked back. At first I didn’t feel it financially as I had a few dollars saved and my father had died the same year so I had a few extra dollars from the life insurance.

In 2016 my finances caught up with me, but I was more concerned with trying to finish a film that I was working on which put me deeper in debt. Sometimes I wished I had not walked out on the client, but I know now it was meant to be...so I could grow...and I have. Sometimes when bad things happen to us there's something good right around the corner, but I couldn't see it yet.

Bill Collectors Started Calling...

I wanted to crawl back to the client that I knew had hired another bookkeeper. A situation came up in which I manipulated (I can’t say too much because my existing client might find out) one of my client accounts. I basically used their invoices and took out a loan. I didn’t steal their identity or anything like that, I just used their unpaid invoices as collateral for the loan.

So Life Was Good...Until

The loan company payments started coming out of my checking account weekly. No problem yet because the payments were low and I could keep working on my other clients and my film. Soon the payments caught up with me at $1,000 per week and soon thereafter I would stop the payment so my business account wouldn’t become overdrawn. I knew if I did not pay the $10,000 that my client would find out and fire me along with reporting me to the police.

I Was Desperate...

The loan company started making collection calls and sending emails. I was sweating and couldn’t sleep because sooner or later they would email the client. I needed to pay the loan company and quick, but I didn’t have any cash and I couldn’t get any more loans against the invoices. That meant I had to ask my clients and family members for the money which I didn’t want to do. I used most of the loan money to pay credit cards which I will NEVER do again.

I Felt Stuck...

My life felt out of control and I thought I would go to jail if my client found out. I decided to take action and not be a victim. I asked one of my clients to pay a year in advance, got a loan from my sister and spouse and was able to pay the $10,000 in cash (in small chunks).

I Was Happy!

Life was better but I still had a problem with the creditors. All my money went to pay back the loan and my credit cards hadn’t been paid so my 756 credit score that I tried to hold onto for dear life, dropped to less than 600 within a span of less than 4 months. I couldn’t believe it! So I decided not to pay them and it was the best thing in the world I could've done!

Soon Thereafter I Decided To
Write A Short Book About My Journey
And Started This Website Skinny Books Publishing.

Since I created this website, I have received numerous emails from people telling me how my book has changed their thinking, their lives and how they handle their creditors. Some of them told me I saved them thousands of dollars, saved their health (due to less stress) and kept their marriages in tact (when there's a money problem there’s a spouse problem) and in various other ways...

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Thank you Friend for reading!


Steph Wynne,
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